Part 1
My husband and I got up around 4:30am. After showers, last
minute packing and getting Baby C ready we headed out the door.
We then headed to my sister C’s house to drop off Baby C.
She lives just a few minutes away. After kisses and hugs, we were on the road
around 5:15am. On the way to the hospital, we stopped at Mc.Donalds for
something to eat. A former student worked the window where they passed us our
food. She asked me how the year was going (I am a teacher) and I replied with
something to the effect of “I’m going to have a baby today!”
Getting to the hospital so early, we got an amazing parking spot.
I remember telling my husband on the way that I wasn’t nervous, but that I
probably would be when I walked into the hospital. And, sure enough I was! We
made our way to the 3rd floor, labor and delivery. We told them why
were there, but the receptionist asked us to wait in the waiting room for a few
minutes. We were supposed to be there at 6:45am, but we got there around 6:25am
and on top of that they were really busy with other people that just arrived
for inductions.
We waited. I used the bathroom seemingly a dozen times. My
husband’s eye was bothering him again (just a few weeks ago it had been
scratched). A young man visited his
mother in the waiting room several times. Right before the receptionist came to
tell us to go back (there was a change in shift this was a new receptionist),
the young man came out to tell his mother that his baby had been born. It was
an amazing site to see! I cried. My hormones? My excitement? My nerves? All of
the above?
We were told what room to report to. Someone walked us
partway there. When we entered the room, our nurse for the day was already
preparing. She could see my tears. She asked if I was o.k. She immediately told
me to change, etc… The girdle belt thing that held the monitors was so tight, I
even asked if it was supposed to be that tight. After completing the basics
(background information, BP, etc…), she told me how the induction was to work. She
checked me and she said that I was 3cm and 70-80% effaced (I think). I was kind
of bummed because the midwife the evening before said I was 3-4cm. But, I know
each person could ‘see’ it differently. She also said that I wasn’t posterior
and that I was a station -2. It took 3 tries to get my bloodwork and IV started.
She even had to ask another nurse to help. My IV ended up being on the back of
my left arm.
My P.itocin officially started around 8:15am. I was then
able to walk. This is something that I really wanted to do. I didn’t want to be
confined to the bed all day. I was to report back to the room every 45 and 15
after for an increase in medicine. There was a circle that we could walk. The
first dose didn’t seem to do anything. We walked, we talked and we laughed. My
husband spotted a bulletin board with the numbers of babies born at the
hospital each month for the last year. He made it his job to remember a new
month’s number each lap. At first I was interested, but then I acted like I was
following along. Too much else was on my mind. We reported back, she increased
the dose. We walked. I swear I started feeling contractions. We reported back
again, she increased the dose again. And, we were told to wait they were going
to break my water. A doctor from the practice I go to actually broke my water.
I didn’t feel it at first, but when I did I remember it being very warm and that
it kept coming and coming. He checked me and said that I was also 3cm and I can’t
remember if he checked for effacement. He said I had made progress and that I
was at station 0. After a few minutes, I was ready to walk. We didn’t get to
walk for long because it started streaming down my legs. I had to get cleaned
up. I got another increase and then it all really got started. In previous laps
it took us a little over 2 minutes to complete, but now I was having two
contractions before I could even complete one lap. I would have to stop and
bend over just to make it, but I wanted to keep going. All the while, my husband
was still memorizing the numbers. I remember that I kept running into G.eorge
(my IV cart- that’s what our nurse D.ani called it). Each of my toes felt bruised
by the time I was done walking. I couldn’t walk anymore.
At some point during the increases, I had asked when I would
be checked again. She said between 11am and noon. That was my goal. I wanted to
make it to that check to see where I was to then decide if I wanted the
epidural or not. She warned me that after I told her I was ready, I needed to
be ready to wait 30 minutes or so before the epidural would be in place.
When we got back to the room and she came in, I told her I
was ready. Sur enough, my contractions were 2-3 minutes apart. Every time I walked
and/or stood up I would feel a huge gush of water. I never expected that when
my contractions started they would be so close together. I wasn’t ready for
that. I sat on the edge of the bed and said I was ready for the epidural. My
husband sat beside me and talked me through each one. D.ani called for the
epidural. Luckily, the anesthesiologist came quickly. She told me it would be
20 minute process. I cringed. Each time she wanted to do something, I would get
a contraction. All she kept saying was “sit really still and don’t lean over.”
I guess each time I would get a contraction I would lean to my right side. It
was so difficult to sit through the process, but I was looking forward to the
relief. Once it was in place and the medicine started, she waited and completed
paperwork. My right side went numb quickly, but I was still feeling the
contractions on my left side. We waited some more. After no relief, she decided
to give me more medicine through the line. My left abdomen eventually went numb
and then the left side of my back. Relief! I also had a self pump that I could
use. I think I used it twice and another nurse pushed it for me at one other
point when I told her that I started to feel things again.I was checked. I was hoping for 6cm. I was 7-8cm! The next few hours were spent resting my eyes (not sleeping), talking with my husband, watching him play games and turning side to side. At one point, my nurse went to lunch and was then busy with another patient. So, several other nurses checked on us. My husband felt a headache coming on, so he went to get a snack and medicine from our car. I told him to take his phone. I was laying on my right side at this point. All of a sudden I felt as though I need to go to the restroom. I wasn’t feeling my contractions (I couldn’t feel my legs and I had no control over them--- that’s why people had to help me turn side to side). But, I could feel pressure. It didn’t really hurt. D.ani came to check on use at 2:45pm. I told her. She became excited! She checked me. I saw a strange look on her face. Initially, I had thought that maybe I hadn’t made any progress, but she then told us that I was complete! It was time to push!
10 comments:
So glad to read an update...looking forward to part 2! Congrats on your sweet new baby!
That last comment was from me (Alice)-lurker extraordinaire! ;0)
So exciting, I can't wait to hear the rest!!!
So exciting! Can't wait for the rest!
What a tease, no pictures?!! Can't wait for the rest, we all want to see your baby!! :)
Love this and looking forward to part two!
Where do you live? My hospital's L&D was on the 3rd floor, too.
Oh my goodness, congratulations Mommy of 2 girls! Can't wait to read part two:)
I am SO waiting for part 2!
Cliffhanger!!!!!
Of course now I am DYING to know what you had... I recently started following your blog, as my husband and I are deciding what route to go as of now. Pursue expensive fertility treatments or head the adoption way!
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